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Oh my Goddess! Thank you so much for your article on balance. Balance is also something that has eluded me and I have been less than compassionate about it with myself. I love how you help us identify the difference between loss of balance due to a passion project and due to adhering to toxic hustle culture. This is so freeing! Thank you, Thank you!

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You’re so very welcome! I’m so glad this distinction feels freeing. Here’s to more passion projects!

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what a great article, being 71 and in a constant struggle to find some balance between having ms,household and my art, this made me very happy, a lot i can let go now, gives me more time to play and less to truggle with and think about, thank you

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Yes to more play!! <3

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I was listening to a podcast recently where they were talking about intrinsically motivated work as opposed to work we feel obligated to do from external factors. I think this coincides beautifully with your point. When I'm "working" on my writing, I don't feel the need for strict work/life boundaries because it makes me feel alive. When I'm doing something because I feel like I should or have to, it's draining and feels more like "work."

Always fun to have these conversations in community!

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Ah yes! Intrinsically motivated work is always so much more pleasurable than and life giving than things we feel obligated to do, what I tend to call “performative productivity”. These are indeed interesting conversations to have in community!

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