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I'm really so sorry for your loss of Loki. There's something particularly tender about marking that one-month anniversary with art and memory. The way you describe planning to honor him through creative work speaks to how art can hold what words sometimes can't.

Your memory prompt feels especially meaningful right now. I've been thinking lately about how our creative practices can become repositories for the people and experiences we don't want to lose. In my own work with depression, I've found that making something with my hands - whether it's crocheting or collage - always helps me process grief in a way that feels more gentle than just thinking about it or trying to write about it.

The idea of drawing from memory rather than reference photos really appeals to me. There's something about working from that internal landscape that captures not just how things looked but how they felt. I'm imagining creating something about my father, who died a couple years ago, and how different that would be from working from a photograph of him.

Your suggestion about everyday objects connected to memory particularly resonates. I have his old corduroy pants that I wore for a week straight after he died and now I can't bring myself to wear them at all ... but maybe I could draw them, or write about it, or somehow honor the weight they carry. Sometimes the most ordinary things hold the deepest connections.

Thank you for creating space for others to explore their own memories through art. That feels like a gift, especially during your own time of grief.

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